The question we get asked the most these days is about "solid" food. While I am not convinced that rice cereal or pureed vegetables are "solid" food, they are more solid than formula. The doctor told us there was no reason to rush; she would let us know when she was ready and that any time between four and six months is normal, but there is really no reason to push the issue until after six months.
Charlotte has exhibited all the signs of being ready- interested in our food,
mimicking us at dinnertime, eating more. We have not, however, had a lot of success with the rice cereal. She'll put in in her mouth, but swallowing is not high on her priority list. Spitting and crying is much more fun, as the follow video suggests:
We tried again, but this time let her feed herself since she likes spoons so much. She started playing with spoons at the dinner table on Thanksgiving, which is what prompted us to think she might be ready. She enjoyed this experience more than the previous one, but still did not actually swallow the food.
For now, we have decided to hold off on the rice cereal. The holidays really messed with her schedule, so we wanted to wait until she had a more consistent and regular schedule again before throwing in the "solid" food again. My mother has suggested using oatmeal instead of rice cereal since it could be a taste thing. Any other suggestions for a more successful "real food" experience?